The Rules of Engagement

Seven Proven Rules of Engagement
To Resolve Cultural and Religious Conflicts
Through Common Ground Thinking

By Wayne Jacobsen

These seven Rules of Engagement area at the core of our training and mediation in Common Ground Thinking Derived from the ideals of the Declaration of Independence and the First Amendment, these simple rules can reframe the debate in cultural and religious conflicts that help groups achieve Fourth Option Agreements to work in the best interests of all parties involved.

Rule #1
You Can’t Force People to Change Their Worldview

Rule #2
Vilifying Those Who Disagree with You Says More about You
Than It Does about Them

Rule #3
Allowing Divergent Views Does Not Validate Those Views

Rule #4
You Best Protect Your Civic Freedoms by Protecting Those Who Disagree with You

Rule #5
If You Do Not Include All the Stakeholders You Cannot Fix the Problem

Rule #6
Cooperation Cannot Require Compromise of our Deepest Convictions

Rule #7
The Best Solutions Arise from Seeking Highest Possible Consensus

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